Flirting is an ancient art form that has been around since the beginning of time. It is primarily used as a way to find a potential mate by both sexes. Every mammal on earth has certain rituals that are typical of human flirting with the opposite sex. Flirting comes naturally for some people. Some people because they are shy may find it uncomfortable to flirt and a few tips may go a long way. These tips are general guidelines and may get you out of the corner.Remember flirting is not a commitment to anyone, it is just a little investigative game to see if someone is interested or not. It is fun and should be approached as such.Approaching someone should be done in a relaxed manner.
A big smile a handshake goes a long way in first impressions. The handshaking and big smiles should be reserved for those that are genuinely interested in flirting with you. The first contact should be very light, maybe a statement regarding the weather or the crowd, if the other party seems interested and doesn't turn away it is a perfect opportunity to introduce yourself and offer a hand to shake.Some body contact (light body contact, a light touch on the arm etc.) will send the signal that you are interested.Body language is very important when flirting. Leaning in to listen is interpreted as interest. Making eye contact in short spurts than looking away also relays interest. Standing in a relaxed manner without arms crossed also delivers the message that you are interested.
Nodding the head occasionally while smiling during the conversation shows agreement and a positive reception.Laughing when appropriate shows interest in the other party. Asking questions also relays interest. Initially though the conversation should be kept light. Information should be revealed slowly, after all this is supposed to be fun, nothing to heavy.Flirting will usually not result in anything long term, but sometimes that is exactly how you meet "the one".A little harmless flirting can go a long way. Have fun jump in and see what happens.
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Friday, July 22, 2011
Shy People-Learn How To Flirt
How To Flirt With Singles
As you prepare to flirt with a single, you need to realize that flirting is all about attitude. When you have the right attitude as a single person, you can flirt with anybody you want. It is what many shy guys lack, since attitude gives you courage and satisfies your need. You should be in a position to know how you can approach the single you have in mind, more so if you feel there is something between the two of you that is quite deep.
When you are in proximity, you might be enjoying his conversation and manner of talking and you really cannot have enough of him. You should know that a good flirt is largely self-confident and does not give you any thought of being afraid to take risk. Flirting is risky business. When you are beginning the flirts you are generally trying whether a single person can reciprocate, and if he or she answers you it is for the best. Flirting is never one sided, and if does not bring about a reply, you are not clicking or she or he does not like you. You might also have used the wrong move and you need to make things better and the atmosphere conducive for more chat. When you are sharing an atmosphere of well being as you enjoy yourself, there is nothing like it. You will be enjoying everything you have as you resort towards enjoying yourself wholeheartedly. The more you make yourself enjoy, the more the flirt process will occasion and you will be on your way to knowing a person better. A flirt is enthusiastic and quite positive. There is no way you can fail in flirting if you are positive and bubbling with enthusiasm.
It is all about looking forward at your moves with the desired confidence and soon you might be on your way to greater things that surpass a mere chat with an interesting single person. When you are enthusiastic, you are approachable and quite interesting. It is what is important when you are about to attract a person you have never talked to. You make yourself irresistible when you wield positive air, and the more you are full of confidence. What many people would not think about having a flirt with is a guy with negative air, unapproachable and totally disagreeable. It is what is eluded at when it is said that love begets love, and enthusiasm begets ample flirts. You should never shy away from starting a conversation.
It is so easy to do so when you aim at having a flirt cocktail with a single. You can start with a hello, which is the perfect door to greater things in your flirting mission. Another way is to talk about the surroundings, ask for help, question or even state a personal opinion. Many people fail to flirt simply because they lack in the opening line that endears them to one another. If you can say hello or just ask anything, you will receive a feedback and you can begin the flirting game.
When you are in proximity, you might be enjoying his conversation and manner of talking and you really cannot have enough of him. You should know that a good flirt is largely self-confident and does not give you any thought of being afraid to take risk. Flirting is risky business. When you are beginning the flirts you are generally trying whether a single person can reciprocate, and if he or she answers you it is for the best. Flirting is never one sided, and if does not bring about a reply, you are not clicking or she or he does not like you. You might also have used the wrong move and you need to make things better and the atmosphere conducive for more chat. When you are sharing an atmosphere of well being as you enjoy yourself, there is nothing like it. You will be enjoying everything you have as you resort towards enjoying yourself wholeheartedly. The more you make yourself enjoy, the more the flirt process will occasion and you will be on your way to knowing a person better. A flirt is enthusiastic and quite positive. There is no way you can fail in flirting if you are positive and bubbling with enthusiasm.
It is all about looking forward at your moves with the desired confidence and soon you might be on your way to greater things that surpass a mere chat with an interesting single person. When you are enthusiastic, you are approachable and quite interesting. It is what is important when you are about to attract a person you have never talked to. You make yourself irresistible when you wield positive air, and the more you are full of confidence. What many people would not think about having a flirt with is a guy with negative air, unapproachable and totally disagreeable. It is what is eluded at when it is said that love begets love, and enthusiasm begets ample flirts. You should never shy away from starting a conversation.
It is so easy to do so when you aim at having a flirt cocktail with a single. You can start with a hello, which is the perfect door to greater things in your flirting mission. Another way is to talk about the surroundings, ask for help, question or even state a personal opinion. Many people fail to flirt simply because they lack in the opening line that endears them to one another. If you can say hello or just ask anything, you will receive a feedback and you can begin the flirting game.
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