Friday, July 22, 2011

Shy People-Learn How To Flirt

Flirting is an ancient art form that has been around since the beginning of time. It is primarily used as a way to find a potential mate by both sexes. Every mammal on earth has certain rituals that are typical of human flirting with the opposite sex. Flirting comes naturally for some people. Some people because they are shy may find it uncomfortable to flirt and a few tips may go a long way. These tips are general guidelines and may get you out of the corner.Remember flirting is not a commitment to anyone, it is just a little investigative game to see if someone is interested or not. It is fun and should be approached as such.Approaching someone should be done in a relaxed manner.
A big smile a handshake goes a long way in first impressions. The handshaking and big smiles should be reserved for those that are genuinely interested in flirting with you. The first contact should be very light, maybe a statement regarding the weather or the crowd, if the other party seems interested and doesn't turn away it is a perfect opportunity to introduce yourself and offer a hand to shake.Some body contact (light body contact, a light touch on the arm etc.) will send the signal that you are interested.Body language is very important when flirting. Leaning in to listen is interpreted as interest. Making eye contact in short spurts than looking away also relays interest. Standing in a relaxed manner without arms crossed also delivers the message that you are interested.
Nodding the head occasionally while smiling during the conversation shows agreement and a positive reception.Laughing when appropriate shows interest in the other party. Asking questions also relays interest. Initially though the conversation should be kept light. Information should be revealed slowly, after all this is supposed to be fun, nothing to heavy.Flirting will usually not result in anything long term, but sometimes that is exactly how you meet "the one".A little harmless flirting can go a long way. Have fun jump in and see what happens.

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